I met a business contact, and had a meeting with him towards the end of the day at my office. We talked a long while and hit it off. We both are married and have kids. After everyone went home I offered him a beer, and I called home that I was still in a meeting and that I would get home late.
When you are left alone to grow up you and your sister become very close. I don't know how old I was 18 yo but my Sister Barb was 2 years older than me. She was very strong and she always the boss when we were home alone.
Not long after we married, my husband Chris sent me a stranger's dick pic from a Craigslist ad. It was the escalation of a conversation that began when we met. Chris was not long out of an open marriage at the time and he wanted to continue that openness. I didn't have any moral objection to nonmonogamy but thought, It's not for me.