People sometimes tell me they know a couple married 20 years whose sex life is still as good as it ever was. Here's what I tell them in return: "There are only three possibilities. One: This couple is lying. Two: They are telling the truth, because they didn't have good sex to begin with. Or three: Sex is all they really have together.
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First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes conflicting schedules, changing priorities and a laundry list of other reasons including actual laundry that just seem to get in the way of having sex. What really happens between the sheets for couples who are 5, 10, 15, 20 or more years past the initial hot-and-heavy phase of a relationship? And it turns out, even though kids and life can get in the way, in many cases there is plenty to look forward to when it comes to sex in the long term. We chatted with 11 couples about how often they get down, how sex has changed and how to keep the romance alive. Definitely missing the connection sex brings to our marriage. Not happy with the amount at the moment but hoping it improves once baby two moves into her new room and our toddler stays in her toddler bed more often than she is currently.
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It's the little things, isn't it? Try all of these hot ideas for a married-sex makeover , or grab just one of the moves for a wow-that-was-amazing night. They require almost no effort on your part and they'll strengthen your bond outside of the bedroom, too.
When we read a book, we download that knowledge that others have experienced into our brains. There is a wealth of knowledge out there in books to help you improve your sex life and yes, your relationship, too. You need to be constantly improving and adding excitement to your relationship. Below is a listing a books that I recommend to individuals or couples wanted to keep improving their relationships.